Safety Center

Dating should feel exciting, and safe. This page covers the tools built into Findr to help you stay in control, practical tips for meeting people from the app, how to report a problem, and our community guidelines.

Your protection

Verification

Verify your profile to build trust. Verified badges help others know you're really you.

Privacy & visibility

Control who sees your distance, age, and specific photos from your privacy settings.

Blocked users

Block anyone, anytime, from their profile or a chat. Blocked users can't see you or contact you again.

Safety tips

Meet in public

Choose a public place for your first few dates.

Video chat first

Have a video call before meeting in person.

Share your plans

Tell a friend where you're going and who with.

Never send money

Findr matches will never ask you for money.

Report a problem

You can report or block any user directly from their profile or from a chat, in the app. Every report is reviewed by our safety team. If you'd rather report something through the web, use our contact form and choose "Report a concern".

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first. Findr's in-app report tools are for reviewing accounts after the fact, not for emergencies in progress.

Community guidelines

Everyone on Findr deserves to feel respected and safe. By using Findr you agree to these guidelines, which sit alongside our Terms of Service:

Be genuine. Represent yourself honestly, with your own photos and real information.
Be respectful: no harassment, hate speech, threats, or discrimination of any kind.
Be safe: no soliciting money, running scams, or promoting commercial services.
No content involving minors, in any context, is ever permitted.
Report, don't retaliate. Use the block/report tools instead of engaging with bad behavior.

Accounts that violate these guidelines may be warned, suspended, or permanently removed at Findr's discretion, particularly in cases involving harassment, harm, or illegal content.